There is nothing quite like a Military Ball. Buying dresses, shoes and purses. Getting your hair done, make up and tanning if need be. Oh it is so much FUN! /end sarcasm!!!
This Friday evening I will venture out of my house looking more feminine then some will ever believe. I am going to be wearing a dress and heels, will have gotten my hair done and even gone so far as to get a spray tan. Yep! A spray tan! Ugh.
These Balls follow the Customs of Old World. They are Black Tie events and Formal. Soldiers come in their Dress Greens, or their Dress Blues, and their Dates come dressed to the Nines. The Chain of Command will give speeches, some Soldiers may be given a recognition, a Grog will certainly be held. A delicate meal will be served and then the Ball will proceed. Of course, by this point, most the men will surely be feeling their spirits. ;) Music will play, some will dance, some will leave, but for the most part, quite a few will enjoy themselves.
Ok, now for my point of view. I started this post out with sarcasm, but not because I do not enjoy the Ball... I just don't enjoy being so feminine! I am hoping though that I may have remedied this situation. I have found a dress that I am completely in love with, that I truly believe suits me to a tee!
I love almost everything 17th and 18th Century. I love the idea of Duke's and Lord's, of the Ton, of Etiquette and Propriety. I love the Empire waistlines and Victorian Class. I love the idea of Bowery Street Men, of hiring a Hackney and Petticoats and Pelisses... My dress is similar to this Era.
My dress is why I am very excited about this Ball.
Now look at the femininity coming out of me! Haha! Ridiculous really. However, when I first spied my dress, I was leery. It didn't have the sleeves I was looking for, nor did it have the bodice coverage I wanted. But the color was magnificent and it held every single thing else that I wanted it to have. I fought with myself about the dress, even left the store in search of something else, only to end up back at the store, trying the dress on again. In the end I bought the dress and have been in love with it ever since. I also bought a shrug to wear over top of it, because to me, the shrug completes the Victorian look I am striving to attain.
Alright, so dress complete. Well, almost. I am waiting to get it back from Alterations. Yep, I am a short little sucker! Now, on Wednesday I have an appointment to get a spray tan. Now before you think I am completely weird... I don't go to tanning beds and I don't worship the sun in the summer. I tan but it is mostly a farmer's tan, and would not look right at all in this dress. So I am spray tanning the farmer's tan away and hopefully giving myself a bit of a warm glow. Ugh. I better not come out looking like a carrot!!!
After that, all that is left is to get my hair done on Friday afternoon. I am going for a partial up-do, I think. I want the up-do with the thick spirals and baby's breath from the Victorian Era. Not too much to ask right? lol
So there you have it - I don't like being made up over feminine, but for once I think I am going to enjoy it... because I am actually wearing what I want, and not what current fashion dictates.
For those who want to know:
Grog http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grog
Monday, September 20, 2010
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Emotional Storm
It appears that I am not a good blogger. If I were then this would not be posted four months after my last one. Ugh. One good thing though, no complaints from people about why I haven't kept up or what adventures they have missed out on hearing! lol
I did ride my bike for a while after my last post. Even rode it one night with the Hubby, half drunk that he was; with his seat raping him! (It had become loose and decided that it wanted to slant backwards the entire ride home!) I rode it a few more times as well, however it ended up in my friends garage for about a month because I rode it there but Hubby picked me up. Funny how fast the time went by before I realized it.
I did ride my bike the other day. I left the house fully intent on meeting a friend for lunch at the PX, however he had to work through his lunch with barely anytime afterwards for him to eat... He apparently hates Rear D!!
So here I now sit, contemplating what to write about. I have so much in my brain but like normal, the words are eluding me. That is not to say that I won't write at all... I just need to calm my thoughts before running off on a tangent.
I have some fat that I have been chewing on, yet I don't know if I can actually put the words to paper in order for everyone to read. Not that they can't or shouldn't know, I am not sure I can do myself justice with words. Most who know me, know that I am an emotional soul. I cry at movies, I cry at cartoons, I cry at commercials, heck I cry. I also make attachments that cannot be easily broken. If I have accepted someone as a friend, I tie myself to them and fight for the relationship. No amount of distance or separation deters me from keeping that friend in my heart. I am a sappy, devoted friend to the end. I am not adverse to showing this side of me.
But lately it feels like being the person to do all the work isn't working for me anymore. I can put out all of the offers and lifelines I want, but when they aren't being accepted or even recognized...
At what point do I give up and let go?
I realize that I am but one person, and that not everyone is the same as me. I understand that I sometimes come across as harsh and brash, but being forthright is how I have managed to survive as an Army wife, and so I will not apologize for that or change it. That being said, I am having the hardest time being frank with one friend in particular. It isn't as if my life depends on him or anything, but from initial contact he became an instant part of my family. (Now I do know that I can also be a bit overbearing, but a simple word can make me catch sight of what I am doing, and I alter my course.) I don't know what happened, if I did something wrong, if I offended... I have no clue but I feel like I should be guilt ridden, because I don't know. And to be completely honest, I wish I didn't care so much, because then this wouldn't be eating away at my heart.
I haven't really talked about it with hubby, because knowing him the way I do, he would likely tell me to not worry about it and let it go. Easier for him. Me? Not so much.
Actually, I wish I could just walk away from it and not blink twice... but I don't know how to and don't know if I am strong enough to. I guess this is my current task - figuring out when to cut the ties that bind. Ugh! I sometimes wish I weren't as emotional as I am. It would make things much easier. But... I am my Mother's Daughter, and I am thankful to be a lot like her. I wouldn't change it for the world.
I did ride my bike for a while after my last post. Even rode it one night with the Hubby, half drunk that he was; with his seat raping him! (It had become loose and decided that it wanted to slant backwards the entire ride home!) I rode it a few more times as well, however it ended up in my friends garage for about a month because I rode it there but Hubby picked me up. Funny how fast the time went by before I realized it.
I did ride my bike the other day. I left the house fully intent on meeting a friend for lunch at the PX, however he had to work through his lunch with barely anytime afterwards for him to eat... He apparently hates Rear D!!
So here I now sit, contemplating what to write about. I have so much in my brain but like normal, the words are eluding me. That is not to say that I won't write at all... I just need to calm my thoughts before running off on a tangent.
I have some fat that I have been chewing on, yet I don't know if I can actually put the words to paper in order for everyone to read. Not that they can't or shouldn't know, I am not sure I can do myself justice with words. Most who know me, know that I am an emotional soul. I cry at movies, I cry at cartoons, I cry at commercials, heck I cry. I also make attachments that cannot be easily broken. If I have accepted someone as a friend, I tie myself to them and fight for the relationship. No amount of distance or separation deters me from keeping that friend in my heart. I am a sappy, devoted friend to the end. I am not adverse to showing this side of me.
But lately it feels like being the person to do all the work isn't working for me anymore. I can put out all of the offers and lifelines I want, but when they aren't being accepted or even recognized...
At what point do I give up and let go?
I realize that I am but one person, and that not everyone is the same as me. I understand that I sometimes come across as harsh and brash, but being forthright is how I have managed to survive as an Army wife, and so I will not apologize for that or change it. That being said, I am having the hardest time being frank with one friend in particular. It isn't as if my life depends on him or anything, but from initial contact he became an instant part of my family. (Now I do know that I can also be a bit overbearing, but a simple word can make me catch sight of what I am doing, and I alter my course.) I don't know what happened, if I did something wrong, if I offended... I have no clue but I feel like I should be guilt ridden, because I don't know. And to be completely honest, I wish I didn't care so much, because then this wouldn't be eating away at my heart.
I haven't really talked about it with hubby, because knowing him the way I do, he would likely tell me to not worry about it and let it go. Easier for him. Me? Not so much.
Actually, I wish I could just walk away from it and not blink twice... but I don't know how to and don't know if I am strong enough to. I guess this is my current task - figuring out when to cut the ties that bind. Ugh! I sometimes wish I weren't as emotional as I am. It would make things much easier. But... I am my Mother's Daughter, and I am thankful to be a lot like her. I wouldn't change it for the world.
Saturday, May 8, 2010
Day 13
It is May right?
I ask because it surely does not feel like May. It feels more like March or November! Rainy and cold. Now I am almost certain that I am not meant to ride my bike this weekend at all. It is a whopping 43°F but with the windchill it feels Like 35°F! And the rain just isn't normal rain, it is the kind that comes in sideways so umbrella's are basically useless. Fun stuff right? Ugh!
I was supposed to go help a friend out this morning, but at 7:30-ish she called to tell me she didn't require my services any longer. SWEET! I crawled back into bed, because I was actually up and getting ready if you can believe that, and slept for another hour. I got up, showered and got ready for the FRG Appreciation Brunch that we had today. I sent Michele a text so that I could hook up with her and all was good to go.
We got to the ACS building and I started setting up the food, while Michele and Stephanie did something else... well, to be honest I knew what they were doing and I was trying real hard not to go look. LOL Michele had brought gifts for people in the FRG who held important positions throughout the deployment, as a thank you. Everyone started showing up...
Now, I will admit that I am not a fan of change. I don't like my structure being messed with, there s a certain way to do things... my way (lol) and I just don't feel comfortable around a lot of new people. Today I was able to finally see how many new people have come back. I hold nothing against them, heck I barely know a lot of them, but to me it just felt weird having these new people around when they haven't been here all year. I get that people go home and they are technically not new when they come back, but from the way we have run things while they were away... they are new to me and they have messed with my structure! Haha! About a month ago, some people started coming back, but it was a slow trickle, so I was able to easily accept them... this is just going to take some getting used to is all. ;)
Michele and Stephanie gave out the gifts and everyone was eating. It was really nice. The Italian Bakery that catered for us is phenomenal! Now came the time for us to thank Michele...
Let me first start by saying that Michele is glue. That's the only way I can put it. She kept our FRG running and full of life throughout this deployment. Several times she has had to listen to some of us vent and complain, but she has always calmed us down and tried to lead us in the right direction. She kept us from killing each other, she had us in stitches laughing over other things, she mediated when needed. I don't think that I could ask for a better FRG Leader and friend. She isn't the type of person who does things, expecting something in return. Everything she does is from the goodness of her heart and so we thought we would show Michele how much we love and appreciate her for being our FRG Leader and friend.
Jodi, Kelly, Misti, Jenn, Casey and I all came together on the idea to get Michele an Edible Arrangement of Chocolate Covered Strawberries... her absolute favorite! I placed the order and collected the money from us all - (Casey... you owe me Girl!!! LMAO), Kelly picked it up this morning and added a balloon to the bouquet. I passed around a card, and then went to Kelly's car to get the bouquet! I brought it in and presented it to Michele. I felt like a goofball trying to come up with something to say, but I managed and of course told her she was the glue! She said later she had to look down or else she was going to cry. Shoot, I am sitting here writing this and almost in tears.
Michele - I love you Girl. No matter where the Army takes you or I, my heart will always be with you. I can't thank you enough for your friendship. xo
Enough mush - I am now home hanging with The Son. He is totally home and planning on spending tonight and all day tomorrow with me. We are going to order Chinese and watch Dr. Parnassius tomorrow, and of course I have to do the wii trade thingy! oOo and he also bought me a gift card for Amazon. I love him so much! He must totally love me or something!
Sunscreen only works when you use it!
I ask because it surely does not feel like May. It feels more like March or November! Rainy and cold. Now I am almost certain that I am not meant to ride my bike this weekend at all. It is a whopping 43°F but with the windchill it feels Like 35°F! And the rain just isn't normal rain, it is the kind that comes in sideways so umbrella's are basically useless. Fun stuff right? Ugh!
I was supposed to go help a friend out this morning, but at 7:30-ish she called to tell me she didn't require my services any longer. SWEET! I crawled back into bed, because I was actually up and getting ready if you can believe that, and slept for another hour. I got up, showered and got ready for the FRG Appreciation Brunch that we had today. I sent Michele a text so that I could hook up with her and all was good to go.
We got to the ACS building and I started setting up the food, while Michele and Stephanie did something else... well, to be honest I knew what they were doing and I was trying real hard not to go look. LOL Michele had brought gifts for people in the FRG who held important positions throughout the deployment, as a thank you. Everyone started showing up...
Now, I will admit that I am not a fan of change. I don't like my structure being messed with, there s a certain way to do things... my way (lol) and I just don't feel comfortable around a lot of new people. Today I was able to finally see how many new people have come back. I hold nothing against them, heck I barely know a lot of them, but to me it just felt weird having these new people around when they haven't been here all year. I get that people go home and they are technically not new when they come back, but from the way we have run things while they were away... they are new to me and they have messed with my structure! Haha! About a month ago, some people started coming back, but it was a slow trickle, so I was able to easily accept them... this is just going to take some getting used to is all. ;)
Michele and Stephanie gave out the gifts and everyone was eating. It was really nice. The Italian Bakery that catered for us is phenomenal! Now came the time for us to thank Michele...
Let me first start by saying that Michele is glue. That's the only way I can put it. She kept our FRG running and full of life throughout this deployment. Several times she has had to listen to some of us vent and complain, but she has always calmed us down and tried to lead us in the right direction. She kept us from killing each other, she had us in stitches laughing over other things, she mediated when needed. I don't think that I could ask for a better FRG Leader and friend. She isn't the type of person who does things, expecting something in return. Everything she does is from the goodness of her heart and so we thought we would show Michele how much we love and appreciate her for being our FRG Leader and friend.
Jodi, Kelly, Misti, Jenn, Casey and I all came together on the idea to get Michele an Edible Arrangement of Chocolate Covered Strawberries... her absolute favorite! I placed the order and collected the money from us all - (Casey... you owe me Girl!!! LMAO), Kelly picked it up this morning and added a balloon to the bouquet. I passed around a card, and then went to Kelly's car to get the bouquet! I brought it in and presented it to Michele. I felt like a goofball trying to come up with something to say, but I managed and of course told her she was the glue! She said later she had to look down or else she was going to cry. Shoot, I am sitting here writing this and almost in tears.
Michele - I love you Girl. No matter where the Army takes you or I, my heart will always be with you. I can't thank you enough for your friendship. xo
Enough mush - I am now home hanging with The Son. He is totally home and planning on spending tonight and all day tomorrow with me. We are going to order Chinese and watch Dr. Parnassius tomorrow, and of course I have to do the wii trade thingy! oOo and he also bought me a gift card for Amazon. I love him so much! He must totally love me or something!
Sunscreen only works when you use it!
Spouses you meet...
My girlfriend posted this on her blog, and so because I have encountered these same types of women, I thought I would share it as well. Thanks Jenn
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Yes it’s true. Sometimes, every so often, as you move around the military or associate with people in the military, you will meet her. She’s the one who is stirring up trouble in your neighborhood. She wears her husband’s rank. Her kids are more well-behaved than yours. Home-schooling makes them smarter. And when you meet her, you will know. She’s the one I’m warning you about.
"Oh no she didn't!" How to handle the dragon lady...
It is unfortunate in our wide and wonderful military, there are some spouses who don’t realize they did not enlist nor did they earn a commission to serve. Yes, our position as “Spouse” is one of great importance, but there’s no compensation for that, other than the hearty hand clap at the occasional military ceremony that honor us in conjunction with our service-member’s accomplishments. The “Spouse” position is certainly honorable, but it’s not one that merits discourteous behavior, rudeness, and down right snobbishness. And the longer you stick around, you WILL meet meet her…or them. So how do you deal with the spouses who act as if they know more, have been more places, who wear their husband’s rank and think they have it so…together? It’s simple if you’re prepared and not put off by the situation. I’ve put these offending spouses in some categories that you may find helpful. Here’s what I suggest when dealing with:
1. The Terminator. This one wants to save the world and eradicate all evil, and that would include you (in her eyes). She assumes that because you may be new to the military, that automatically means you were born yesterday and is on a quest to fix you up or kick you out. In her efforts to help you navigate the military system, she is also destroying personal relations and any future hope of building a friendship with you. If you find yourself in the path of The Terminator, you have to deal with her directly. Be kind, but firm. Let her know you appreciate her knowledge and store house of info, but you do have some things under control. Don’t be confrontational with a Terminator…it can only end ugly and unsavory. You don’t want to burn bridges, you want to build a relationship. I’m not suggesting you become anyone’s project, but know your boundaries, stick to them and make sure The Terminator knows where they are with you.
2. The Superwoman. She can be quite intimidating with her cleaned up kids, her spotless house, the schedule that is never comprised, and yes, that perfect figure. Don’t you be fooled! Even Superwoman has weaknesses and the grass is not always greener. The problem with Superwoman is not really with her. It is you. Be comfortable with YOU and where you are in your military journey. Stop the comparisons with her and her household. Do what you can do and do it with excellence (NOT perfection) and you will be a much happier woman.
3. Desperate Housewives. Now, these are the white picket fence ladies that you will probably need to be the most wary of. They’ve got the skinny on everything and everybody…promotions, demotions, assignments, reassignments, deployments, the war on terror, who is sleeping with whom…you get the idea. Don’t succumb to this group! If you’re in a circle of women who talk (and you know we can talk), you can be assured when you’re not around they’ll be talking about you too. Gossip is probably the lowest form of conversation and puts to poor use your time and energy. It is unnecessary and just bad behavior. Keep your distance from the group who tears down other people with words. Put simply, if you don’t suit up for the game, you can’t be expected to play.
Clearly, all military spouses do not fit in any of these three categories. Spouses are not all evil, vindictive, or manipulative. And as you transition through the military, you’ll learn how to deal with all sorts of people in many situations. The beauty of it all? If you do encounter women like these, one of you will be leaving next summer anyway.
Jenn - The Dysfunctional Military Wife
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Yes it’s true. Sometimes, every so often, as you move around the military or associate with people in the military, you will meet her. She’s the one who is stirring up trouble in your neighborhood. She wears her husband’s rank. Her kids are more well-behaved than yours. Home-schooling makes them smarter. And when you meet her, you will know. She’s the one I’m warning you about.
"Oh no she didn't!" How to handle the dragon lady...
It is unfortunate in our wide and wonderful military, there are some spouses who don’t realize they did not enlist nor did they earn a commission to serve. Yes, our position as “Spouse” is one of great importance, but there’s no compensation for that, other than the hearty hand clap at the occasional military ceremony that honor us in conjunction with our service-member’s accomplishments. The “Spouse” position is certainly honorable, but it’s not one that merits discourteous behavior, rudeness, and down right snobbishness. And the longer you stick around, you WILL meet meet her…or them. So how do you deal with the spouses who act as if they know more, have been more places, who wear their husband’s rank and think they have it so…together? It’s simple if you’re prepared and not put off by the situation. I’ve put these offending spouses in some categories that you may find helpful. Here’s what I suggest when dealing with:
1. The Terminator. This one wants to save the world and eradicate all evil, and that would include you (in her eyes). She assumes that because you may be new to the military, that automatically means you were born yesterday and is on a quest to fix you up or kick you out. In her efforts to help you navigate the military system, she is also destroying personal relations and any future hope of building a friendship with you. If you find yourself in the path of The Terminator, you have to deal with her directly. Be kind, but firm. Let her know you appreciate her knowledge and store house of info, but you do have some things under control. Don’t be confrontational with a Terminator…it can only end ugly and unsavory. You don’t want to burn bridges, you want to build a relationship. I’m not suggesting you become anyone’s project, but know your boundaries, stick to them and make sure The Terminator knows where they are with you.
2. The Superwoman. She can be quite intimidating with her cleaned up kids, her spotless house, the schedule that is never comprised, and yes, that perfect figure. Don’t you be fooled! Even Superwoman has weaknesses and the grass is not always greener. The problem with Superwoman is not really with her. It is you. Be comfortable with YOU and where you are in your military journey. Stop the comparisons with her and her household. Do what you can do and do it with excellence (NOT perfection) and you will be a much happier woman.
3. Desperate Housewives. Now, these are the white picket fence ladies that you will probably need to be the most wary of. They’ve got the skinny on everything and everybody…promotions, demotions, assignments, reassignments, deployments, the war on terror, who is sleeping with whom…you get the idea. Don’t succumb to this group! If you’re in a circle of women who talk (and you know we can talk), you can be assured when you’re not around they’ll be talking about you too. Gossip is probably the lowest form of conversation and puts to poor use your time and energy. It is unnecessary and just bad behavior. Keep your distance from the group who tears down other people with words. Put simply, if you don’t suit up for the game, you can’t be expected to play.
Clearly, all military spouses do not fit in any of these three categories. Spouses are not all evil, vindictive, or manipulative. And as you transition through the military, you’ll learn how to deal with all sorts of people in many situations. The beauty of it all? If you do encounter women like these, one of you will be leaving next summer anyway.
Jenn - The Dysfunctional Military Wife
Day 12
Friday...
Well, turns out I should have rode yesterday because today was flippin cold! I was still going to ride because I wanted to get some ice, but it being cold and wanting ice doesn't really mix. I procrastinated all morning and well into the afternoon. I was thinking about finally getting ready and heading to the commissary, when Misti called to see what I was doing. I explained to her that I was being a wimp, I didn't want to ride in the dang cold but that I was going to anyway. She told me what she had been doing all day (of which I cannot speak because I am not sure who is reading this), and said she needed to go somewhere for something. So I jumped on it and told her I would go with her! And of course I invited myself to her house afterwards!
About 30 minutes later I was out the door. Funny thing is though, I had a bag with me that had my slippers and flannel pj pants in it! Haha! I was going to be comfortable at all costs! We did what she needed to do and I picked up some new markers and bristol board for some of the decorating I am still doing for James' homecoming.
We went back to Misti's, did some stuff, ordered pizza and I got a Philly cheese steak sandwich. Poor Jarred was trying to get me to throw the football so bad! But if it was too cold for me to ride, it was too cold for me to play football! I promised him that I would come over one or 2 days this week to throw the ball just for him. See, Jarred is almost 12 and it has to be hard on him with Durwood being gone and Misti having to watch after Colton all the time. And of course I am a Tom Boy at heart, so throwing the ball with him is second nature for me. I love it and I even like it a bit when all the neighborhood kids come and join in - except for these 2 little girls that live on the street. They drive me mad!!
James called me while I was there! Talk about being over-joyed. We didn't really talk about much but it was a nice phone call nonetheless.
Anyway, I finally got home from Misti's around 1 am. I sat up for a while and then went to bed. Nothing too exciting at all.
Don't forget your reflective belt!
Well, turns out I should have rode yesterday because today was flippin cold! I was still going to ride because I wanted to get some ice, but it being cold and wanting ice doesn't really mix. I procrastinated all morning and well into the afternoon. I was thinking about finally getting ready and heading to the commissary, when Misti called to see what I was doing. I explained to her that I was being a wimp, I didn't want to ride in the dang cold but that I was going to anyway. She told me what she had been doing all day (of which I cannot speak because I am not sure who is reading this), and said she needed to go somewhere for something. So I jumped on it and told her I would go with her! And of course I invited myself to her house afterwards!
About 30 minutes later I was out the door. Funny thing is though, I had a bag with me that had my slippers and flannel pj pants in it! Haha! I was going to be comfortable at all costs! We did what she needed to do and I picked up some new markers and bristol board for some of the decorating I am still doing for James' homecoming.
We went back to Misti's, did some stuff, ordered pizza and I got a Philly cheese steak sandwich. Poor Jarred was trying to get me to throw the football so bad! But if it was too cold for me to ride, it was too cold for me to play football! I promised him that I would come over one or 2 days this week to throw the ball just for him. See, Jarred is almost 12 and it has to be hard on him with Durwood being gone and Misti having to watch after Colton all the time. And of course I am a Tom Boy at heart, so throwing the ball with him is second nature for me. I love it and I even like it a bit when all the neighborhood kids come and join in - except for these 2 little girls that live on the street. They drive me mad!!
James called me while I was there! Talk about being over-joyed. We didn't really talk about much but it was a nice phone call nonetheless.
Anyway, I finally got home from Misti's around 1 am. I sat up for a while and then went to bed. Nothing too exciting at all.
Don't forget your reflective belt!
Thursday, May 6, 2010
Day 11
Thursday...
I didn't ride today. Instead I went out with Misti so she could turn some paper work in at Clark Hall. I kept Colton occupied - or at least tried to. Most of you know I am not a kid person, and I don't like kids at all! Haha! At least that's what I keep telling myself. Maybe one day it will be true.
We stopped in to see Michele and well, I will leave out what she thought about my attire. Left there and went to the commissary. I bought like 3 cases of water because I had been totally out of water for almost 4 days! I refuse to drink the water on post because it tastes like crap and there have been a couple of times that the water doesn't meet the standards... ie. it fails! I won't even use a filter system for it. Not me! And I know that the water I buy is most likely filtered water, but I don't care. Tastes much better in my mind and I know it didn't come out of my tap!
Ya, so I went over to Misti's for a couple of hours then went home. To be honest, I am writing this on Saturday, so I can't really remember what I did Thursday night. Old age is catching up with me I guess. It must not have been too exciting. I know I talked to Jenn and Michele, and I even think I talked to Momma Haley.
Not too much but I am sure if I am forgetting something, one of my friends will remind me! lol
Be safe! Wear a helmet!
I didn't ride today. Instead I went out with Misti so she could turn some paper work in at Clark Hall. I kept Colton occupied - or at least tried to. Most of you know I am not a kid person, and I don't like kids at all! Haha! At least that's what I keep telling myself. Maybe one day it will be true.
We stopped in to see Michele and well, I will leave out what she thought about my attire. Left there and went to the commissary. I bought like 3 cases of water because I had been totally out of water for almost 4 days! I refuse to drink the water on post because it tastes like crap and there have been a couple of times that the water doesn't meet the standards... ie. it fails! I won't even use a filter system for it. Not me! And I know that the water I buy is most likely filtered water, but I don't care. Tastes much better in my mind and I know it didn't come out of my tap!
Ya, so I went over to Misti's for a couple of hours then went home. To be honest, I am writing this on Saturday, so I can't really remember what I did Thursday night. Old age is catching up with me I guess. It must not have been too exciting. I know I talked to Jenn and Michele, and I even think I talked to Momma Haley.
Not too much but I am sure if I am forgetting something, one of my friends will remind me! lol
Be safe! Wear a helmet!
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Day 10
I have hit double digits!
It is a gorgeous day outside! I left early this morning to go with Jenn 'shopping' so she could see some of the stuff, and of course spend some money. See, the way I figure, if I get on the phone with her, I am always looking at ebay or amazon or other shopping websites, so it is only fair that I take her somewhere so she can enjoy what she puts me through! lol
I took a bunch of pictures for her son Kaiden as well. He loves airplanes and helicopters, so you know what I captured. We went to gamestop and I took care of a few things I needed to, went to the PX and I ended up spending some more money, although I can't complain because I made a point between the last pay check and this one to only have 11 transactions. LOL
I came home and called Jodi to see if she was home... she had me pick her up something while I was out, and then I hopped on my bike and went to her place! Going down the hill was pretty interesting... there is a radar sign there now, and so as I flew down, it registered that I was doing 27 mph! w00t! I wonder if an MP was there, if they would have given me a ticket for going 7 miles over the speed limit? Haha! Everyone was outside at Jodi's. Jodi, Bella, Aurora, Kelly, Grace, Audrey, Kim and Bailey. I sat down, pulled my sleeves up, pulled my capri's up and proceeded to hang out. I worked a bit on my 550 cord thingy, got a text saying I wasn't going to have to fix a friends laptop today... basically just enjoyed the sun and hung out.
Well, after doing that for a while, I could tell I was getting baked, so I started to get ready to leave, only to remember that Jodi and Jen had a box that was going to the 'goodwill'. I went through it, scrounged a black hoodie and three books. ;) But being on my bike I wasn't sure how I was going to get it all home. Jodi offered me the use of a backpack so I said Sure. Little did I know that she was going to bring me out a flippin' PINK under armor backpack!! Gah! Imagine me, riding my yellow and black bike, wearing a blue helmet and a yellow reflective belt, jean capri's and a black t-shirt with a stinking PINK backpack! Haha! But beggars can't be choosers, so I accepted with very little stink and thanked Jodi very much. I finally left and headed home! Of course I walked up the hill. I am not crazy enough to try it again yet! My knee is actually feeling really good today so I don't want to mess things up.
Got home to find the son waiting patiently for permission to eat my Subway cookies... punk. I shared though. Gave him ONE. lol I also turned on the A/C because it was crazy hot in my house.
And so now I am home. I am going to keep working on my 550 cord thingy, probably out on the deck. My shoulders are already a little bit colored so that's alright. I am not looking to get burnt to a crisp though. Not sure what I am going to make for dinner, but I know I want some rice and sofrito!
Happy Cinco de Mayo everyone!
It is a gorgeous day outside! I left early this morning to go with Jenn 'shopping' so she could see some of the stuff, and of course spend some money. See, the way I figure, if I get on the phone with her, I am always looking at ebay or amazon or other shopping websites, so it is only fair that I take her somewhere so she can enjoy what she puts me through! lol
I took a bunch of pictures for her son Kaiden as well. He loves airplanes and helicopters, so you know what I captured. We went to gamestop and I took care of a few things I needed to, went to the PX and I ended up spending some more money, although I can't complain because I made a point between the last pay check and this one to only have 11 transactions. LOL
I came home and called Jodi to see if she was home... she had me pick her up something while I was out, and then I hopped on my bike and went to her place! Going down the hill was pretty interesting... there is a radar sign there now, and so as I flew down, it registered that I was doing 27 mph! w00t! I wonder if an MP was there, if they would have given me a ticket for going 7 miles over the speed limit? Haha! Everyone was outside at Jodi's. Jodi, Bella, Aurora, Kelly, Grace, Audrey, Kim and Bailey. I sat down, pulled my sleeves up, pulled my capri's up and proceeded to hang out. I worked a bit on my 550 cord thingy, got a text saying I wasn't going to have to fix a friends laptop today... basically just enjoyed the sun and hung out.
Well, after doing that for a while, I could tell I was getting baked, so I started to get ready to leave, only to remember that Jodi and Jen had a box that was going to the 'goodwill'. I went through it, scrounged a black hoodie and three books. ;) But being on my bike I wasn't sure how I was going to get it all home. Jodi offered me the use of a backpack so I said Sure. Little did I know that she was going to bring me out a flippin' PINK under armor backpack!! Gah! Imagine me, riding my yellow and black bike, wearing a blue helmet and a yellow reflective belt, jean capri's and a black t-shirt with a stinking PINK backpack! Haha! But beggars can't be choosers, so I accepted with very little stink and thanked Jodi very much. I finally left and headed home! Of course I walked up the hill. I am not crazy enough to try it again yet! My knee is actually feeling really good today so I don't want to mess things up.
Got home to find the son waiting patiently for permission to eat my Subway cookies... punk. I shared though. Gave him ONE. lol I also turned on the A/C because it was crazy hot in my house.
And so now I am home. I am going to keep working on my 550 cord thingy, probably out on the deck. My shoulders are already a little bit colored so that's alright. I am not looking to get burnt to a crisp though. Not sure what I am going to make for dinner, but I know I want some rice and sofrito!
Happy Cinco de Mayo everyone!
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Day 9
The Bicycle Diaries of a Non-Bicycle Day
Yep, I didn't ride my bike today. It was rainy and dreary, chilly and sad. Not much more I can say to describe today. I slept in to begin the day, had a shower and got dressed. No sooner was a ready and it began to pour rain. Fun.
I ended up going with Misti and Ashley, we did a little bit of shopping - nothing too special. Went to the thrift shop and I discovered that Misti is not a thrift store girl. Her and Ashley discovered that I am a cracker and can imitate Elmo. Apparently some kid was freaked out by the voice! I would have loved to see his face! Even the sales lady told me I scared the kid. Great! I scare kids now! lol
Went to the PX, nothing exciting there. Had lunch and messed with Travis and Colton. I gave Travis some chocolate from my cookie and he loved it! And believe it or not, he had my finger in his mouth and I was only bothered by my OCD after the fact. I couldn't wait to get home and wash my hands! I am a freak!
Anyway, I got home a little later than planned and Tabitha came over with her laptop. Bliss! We sat at the table, shooting the breeze while I sped up her laptop. No biggie and actually it was nice to not have a huge challenge. I showed her that the house we live in is really a closet! Hardly anyone believes that this place is so small. It was a great visit until the idiot from downstairs came and knocked, claiming someone was parked in "his place". Idiot. The spots in the driveway are not assigned. I don't know how long it is going to take them to get it through their heads!!
Talked to Michele for a while, listened to a lot of music, tried to find the box set of dvd's that I want and now I am writing my blog. Pretty uneventful day. And I like it.
Gorgeous day tomorrow, so there will definitely be a riding blog to read.
Sure, sure
Yep, I didn't ride my bike today. It was rainy and dreary, chilly and sad. Not much more I can say to describe today. I slept in to begin the day, had a shower and got dressed. No sooner was a ready and it began to pour rain. Fun.
I ended up going with Misti and Ashley, we did a little bit of shopping - nothing too special. Went to the thrift shop and I discovered that Misti is not a thrift store girl. Her and Ashley discovered that I am a cracker and can imitate Elmo. Apparently some kid was freaked out by the voice! I would have loved to see his face! Even the sales lady told me I scared the kid. Great! I scare kids now! lol
Went to the PX, nothing exciting there. Had lunch and messed with Travis and Colton. I gave Travis some chocolate from my cookie and he loved it! And believe it or not, he had my finger in his mouth and I was only bothered by my OCD after the fact. I couldn't wait to get home and wash my hands! I am a freak!
Anyway, I got home a little later than planned and Tabitha came over with her laptop. Bliss! We sat at the table, shooting the breeze while I sped up her laptop. No biggie and actually it was nice to not have a huge challenge. I showed her that the house we live in is really a closet! Hardly anyone believes that this place is so small. It was a great visit until the idiot from downstairs came and knocked, claiming someone was parked in "his place". Idiot. The spots in the driveway are not assigned. I don't know how long it is going to take them to get it through their heads!!
Talked to Michele for a while, listened to a lot of music, tried to find the box set of dvd's that I want and now I am writing my blog. Pretty uneventful day. And I like it.
Gorgeous day tomorrow, so there will definitely be a riding blog to read.
Sure, sure
Monday, May 3, 2010
Day 8
Rain!
You've got to love the North Country in order to put up with 4 seasons in one day! It was cold and raining this morning when I woke. I will admit that I was hoping it would rain all day because I really didn't feel like riding anywhere today. No such luck though. By the time I had showered and dressed, the rain had passed and it looked as if the sun was trying to shine.
So, I donned my knee brace - that's a story in itself! I washed the brace last night in warm soapy water while talking to Jenn on the phone. I Used mild detergent and rubbed it together, did all the things you would normally do when washing by hand. No biggie. I left it to soak for a while, went back to it and pulled it out to rinse it off and such. Well... when I pulled it out of the sink, the water left behind looked like heavy steeped tea! I am not kidding! Now, I can't tell you when I last washed it, if at all and I have had the brace since probably '95! Yes, that is disgustingly gross! Anyway, back to the topic at hand.
So, like I said, I donned my knee brace, and headed out. The ground was already dry and it was still overcast, but the clouds were white and not grey. I hopped on my bike and took off. Everything pretty much normal. I pulled out onto Po Valley and was going about my business. I happened to look down at the ground and almost wiped out!! Right to the left of my front tire was a baby turtle and I missed running him over by millimeters! Picture me, on the bike, seeing the turtle and swerving my bike to miss the little sucker! oOo and a crazy "aaahhhhhh" coming loud and clear out of my mouth! Haha! Too funny. But I spared his life - I just hope he didn't head out to the road. Spared by my bike to only get run over by a vehicle!
Carrying on, I made it to the PX in record time. 12 minutes. The line at Subway was pretty long but I got through quick enough. Bought Michele and I lunch then headed to Clark Hall to meet her. Had a great lunch with her and all of the lovely women she works with. I love them ladies! I hung out until a little after 1pm, when my cell rang. I didn't recognize the number but thought I should answer it anyway. Good thing I did! It was my friend at Gamestop calling to tell me the most amazing news! This news of course I won't relay until I accomplish it! Heehee, are you annoyed?
I left Michele's work and went back over to the PX. Went to Gamestop, talked for a bit, and then I was heading to clothing sales, because Jenn told me I had to get this ribbon that is there. Well, first she told me to get it, then she told me not to get it, and then finally said to get it! She's crazy! So as I walk down, I see that Rachel is working today, so of course I have to stop and talk. Nothing too exciting, just shooting the shyt and talking about when our husbands come home. Then Tabby walked in and of course we started talking all over again! Gotta love that no matter where you go, you are bound to run into someone you know!
I finally left to go get my ribbon, stopped by to say bye to Rachel and Tabby and hopped on my bike to head home. I took my sweet time going home, because now the sun was out and it was so warm! No incidents at all going home. When I got into our community, I thought I would stop by and see Jodi. Well Kelly was there too and they informed me that they were just talking about me! My ears weren't burning though. So we planned to do something this weekend - it's a secret. Can't divulge the info because some people apparently read my blog and I wouldn't want them to know what we are planning - it might have to do with them! ;)
I walked with them to meet the kids at the bus stop and then I got ready to head out. Rode my bike home and of course walked up the hill. I believe it is the problem now for sure because my knee isn't hurting much at all. That and wearing my knee brace!
So now I am home and it is getting chilly outside. 4 seasons remember! Jodi is supposed to stop by tonight and drop off a shelf I bought from her garage sale... she was supposed to do that this morning but she forgot about me. :( How can someone forget about me? Haha!
Tomorrow Tabby is going to drop off her laptop! w00t! I love fixing computers. Nothing can stop me and if I run into a barrier, I just call my tech support... my Dad!
Tam rides again!!!!
You've got to love the North Country in order to put up with 4 seasons in one day! It was cold and raining this morning when I woke. I will admit that I was hoping it would rain all day because I really didn't feel like riding anywhere today. No such luck though. By the time I had showered and dressed, the rain had passed and it looked as if the sun was trying to shine.
So, I donned my knee brace - that's a story in itself! I washed the brace last night in warm soapy water while talking to Jenn on the phone. I Used mild detergent and rubbed it together, did all the things you would normally do when washing by hand. No biggie. I left it to soak for a while, went back to it and pulled it out to rinse it off and such. Well... when I pulled it out of the sink, the water left behind looked like heavy steeped tea! I am not kidding! Now, I can't tell you when I last washed it, if at all and I have had the brace since probably '95! Yes, that is disgustingly gross! Anyway, back to the topic at hand.
So, like I said, I donned my knee brace, and headed out. The ground was already dry and it was still overcast, but the clouds were white and not grey. I hopped on my bike and took off. Everything pretty much normal. I pulled out onto Po Valley and was going about my business. I happened to look down at the ground and almost wiped out!! Right to the left of my front tire was a baby turtle and I missed running him over by millimeters! Picture me, on the bike, seeing the turtle and swerving my bike to miss the little sucker! oOo and a crazy "aaahhhhhh" coming loud and clear out of my mouth! Haha! Too funny. But I spared his life - I just hope he didn't head out to the road. Spared by my bike to only get run over by a vehicle!
Carrying on, I made it to the PX in record time. 12 minutes. The line at Subway was pretty long but I got through quick enough. Bought Michele and I lunch then headed to Clark Hall to meet her. Had a great lunch with her and all of the lovely women she works with. I love them ladies! I hung out until a little after 1pm, when my cell rang. I didn't recognize the number but thought I should answer it anyway. Good thing I did! It was my friend at Gamestop calling to tell me the most amazing news! This news of course I won't relay until I accomplish it! Heehee, are you annoyed?
I left Michele's work and went back over to the PX. Went to Gamestop, talked for a bit, and then I was heading to clothing sales, because Jenn told me I had to get this ribbon that is there. Well, first she told me to get it, then she told me not to get it, and then finally said to get it! She's crazy! So as I walk down, I see that Rachel is working today, so of course I have to stop and talk. Nothing too exciting, just shooting the shyt and talking about when our husbands come home. Then Tabby walked in and of course we started talking all over again! Gotta love that no matter where you go, you are bound to run into someone you know!
I finally left to go get my ribbon, stopped by to say bye to Rachel and Tabby and hopped on my bike to head home. I took my sweet time going home, because now the sun was out and it was so warm! No incidents at all going home. When I got into our community, I thought I would stop by and see Jodi. Well Kelly was there too and they informed me that they were just talking about me! My ears weren't burning though. So we planned to do something this weekend - it's a secret. Can't divulge the info because some people apparently read my blog and I wouldn't want them to know what we are planning - it might have to do with them! ;)
I walked with them to meet the kids at the bus stop and then I got ready to head out. Rode my bike home and of course walked up the hill. I believe it is the problem now for sure because my knee isn't hurting much at all. That and wearing my knee brace!
So now I am home and it is getting chilly outside. 4 seasons remember! Jodi is supposed to stop by tonight and drop off a shelf I bought from her garage sale... she was supposed to do that this morning but she forgot about me. :( How can someone forget about me? Haha!
Tomorrow Tabby is going to drop off her laptop! w00t! I love fixing computers. Nothing can stop me and if I run into a barrier, I just call my tech support... my Dad!
Tam rides again!!!!
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Day 7
I woke today to find that my knee is still a little bit sore, so after showering the first thing I did was put my knee brace back on. What a pain! Don't get me wrong, I love my knee brace and it does wonders, but the thing stinks so bad! I really need to wash it but I need to use it right now. I suppose tonight I will actually wash it up and hang it to dry!
The humidity today is a little bit high - and it is the wet humidity, not the dry that I had become accustomed to in Texas. I was fighting with myself whether I was going to ride today or not. I knew I had to in order to maintain what I have been doing, but my body just didn't want to. Mike walked through the door and that pretty much sealed the deal for me. I knew I was going to have to ride.
I was almost finished getting dressed when Michele sent me a text telling me she was on her way here. So I ran like a chicken with my head cut off in order to look at least presentable for her! I took Daisy outside to meet her, Doms (my wee boyfriend) was knocked out in the back seat, so I stood around with Michele, had a smoke, talked some trash, generally loved seeing her! Yesterday we had an FRG breakfast, and because I had Colleen's birthday I didn't get to go. Well Old Navy was also having a huge sale so I sent a text to my girls Michele, Jenn and Misti, telling them my exact size and what style and what color of capri's I wanted. For all intents and purposes, I was kidding. But my girl Michele loves me so much that she bought me some!!! She dropped them off today, along with a couple other surprises. I tried them on and of course she did great! They fit perfectly!
Michele left and I came upstairs, finished my hair and asked Mike if he wanted anything from Popeye's. See, I had to ride my bike so why not kill 2 birds with one stone? Ride AND get a fountain soda! lol I cussed the entire way down the stairs again, because my knee was already complaining! Made it to the garage and there sat my bike, taunting me! Daring me to ride her! Screaming at me that she would not be broken!! Heehee! I put on my helmet, strapped on my reflective belt and hauled her out of the garage!
Climbing on her, my knee screamed but I was not going to be deterred! The wind was perfectly warm and the sun was behind the clouds. I rode down the hill, loving the feel of the breeze, the smell of new growth. I was in Heaven! Took my sweet time too while riding. There was hardly any traffic, so it was great to be leisurely. When I got to Popeye's, the manager was working so I asked him about something that Mike and I have going on the side - he is going to see what he can do for me! ;)
I bought the food, put it in my backpack, and off I was again for home. Now I know it isn't all that far to go there and back, but at least I am getting my daily ride in! And it was a nice ride coming back as well. However, I think I have found the cause of my aching knee. I rode up the hill again today. Once at the top, my knee didn't want to work anymore! It decided that it had enough and told me so! I guess the extra strength and exertion I put on it in order to get up the hill is what might just be aggravating it! Note to self - walk up that stinking hill more often! Does that make me wimpy? I don't care if it does or not. I am not going to ruin what the doctor's fixed for me years ago! Perhaps after I build up the muscles in my shins, thighs and calves more I might be able to tackle the hill with no knee pain, but at this point I will only do what my body tells me I am able to do! ;)
And so now here I sit, kind of cranky but not near as cranky as I was last night.
oOo and I have plans for my ride tomorrow already too! Lookout Michele and Ashley! Tam's coming for lunch!!! lmao
The humidity today is a little bit high - and it is the wet humidity, not the dry that I had become accustomed to in Texas. I was fighting with myself whether I was going to ride today or not. I knew I had to in order to maintain what I have been doing, but my body just didn't want to. Mike walked through the door and that pretty much sealed the deal for me. I knew I was going to have to ride.
I was almost finished getting dressed when Michele sent me a text telling me she was on her way here. So I ran like a chicken with my head cut off in order to look at least presentable for her! I took Daisy outside to meet her, Doms (my wee boyfriend) was knocked out in the back seat, so I stood around with Michele, had a smoke, talked some trash, generally loved seeing her! Yesterday we had an FRG breakfast, and because I had Colleen's birthday I didn't get to go. Well Old Navy was also having a huge sale so I sent a text to my girls Michele, Jenn and Misti, telling them my exact size and what style and what color of capri's I wanted. For all intents and purposes, I was kidding. But my girl Michele loves me so much that she bought me some!!! She dropped them off today, along with a couple other surprises. I tried them on and of course she did great! They fit perfectly!
Michele left and I came upstairs, finished my hair and asked Mike if he wanted anything from Popeye's. See, I had to ride my bike so why not kill 2 birds with one stone? Ride AND get a fountain soda! lol I cussed the entire way down the stairs again, because my knee was already complaining! Made it to the garage and there sat my bike, taunting me! Daring me to ride her! Screaming at me that she would not be broken!! Heehee! I put on my helmet, strapped on my reflective belt and hauled her out of the garage!
Climbing on her, my knee screamed but I was not going to be deterred! The wind was perfectly warm and the sun was behind the clouds. I rode down the hill, loving the feel of the breeze, the smell of new growth. I was in Heaven! Took my sweet time too while riding. There was hardly any traffic, so it was great to be leisurely. When I got to Popeye's, the manager was working so I asked him about something that Mike and I have going on the side - he is going to see what he can do for me! ;)
I bought the food, put it in my backpack, and off I was again for home. Now I know it isn't all that far to go there and back, but at least I am getting my daily ride in! And it was a nice ride coming back as well. However, I think I have found the cause of my aching knee. I rode up the hill again today. Once at the top, my knee didn't want to work anymore! It decided that it had enough and told me so! I guess the extra strength and exertion I put on it in order to get up the hill is what might just be aggravating it! Note to self - walk up that stinking hill more often! Does that make me wimpy? I don't care if it does or not. I am not going to ruin what the doctor's fixed for me years ago! Perhaps after I build up the muscles in my shins, thighs and calves more I might be able to tackle the hill with no knee pain, but at this point I will only do what my body tells me I am able to do! ;)
And so now here I sit, kind of cranky but not near as cranky as I was last night.
oOo and I have plans for my ride tomorrow already too! Lookout Michele and Ashley! Tam's coming for lunch!!! lmao
Day 6
I'm cranky.
The day started out bright and early for me! I got up and headed over to Colleen's for her birthday. I made it there by 9:45am! Yep, everyone knows that is early for me! Of course I rode my bike - it was so beautiful out at that time!
I helped Colleen get stuff started and we went and picked up the fruit tray she ordered. She left to go to the spa, and I stayed in a house full of New Jericans! What a trip! (I call them that because they are all from New Jersey and are Puerto Ricans lol) Her entire family family was so great and super friendly.
I spent the next 2 hours making potato salad and house salad, as well as cutting up tomatoes and onions and lettuce for hamburgers. Little did I know that the hamburgers had already been eaten and we didn't need the toppings! Colleen's dad did all the grilling - I called him Chef Papi! He went to town on everything. Chicken, burgers, beer brats, hot dogs, ribs, steak... there was enough to feed an Army! (Pun intended!)
Colleen came back from her spa day and she looked so relaxed and refreshed. We all ate, well pigged out is more like it, and then it poured down rain! Fabulous! Of course, by this point I was completely exhausted, so I waited until the rain subsided and then hopped on my bike to head home.
The ride home wasn't bad at all. It was still drizzling, but it actually felt good on my skin. I took my time, smelling the rain and the buds on the trees and grass. I wish my allergies weren't the way they are because I would sit outside and smell everything all day long. Anyway, I made it to my community and was about to tackle the hill. A couple of pumps and I knew there was no way I was going to make it up riding! Off I got and walked the bike up like a little kid. It is weird how one day I can accomplish it and the next I can't even come close!
When I got home, my right knee was killing me. Not sure if everyone knows, but in '92 I had my knee operated on. All throughout high school I had problems with it dislocating all the time. Never mind the fact that I wouldn't give up playing sports in order to let it heal! So they went in and rebuilt my knee cap, put in some screws and them some staples in the tendons... good as new. Well, it seems in my quest to ride my bike every day, I am working muscles I haven't worked in a while. This has my knee agitated a bit. When I walk it feels like I am hyper-extending it, which of course I am not, but still the pain feels real enough. Anyway, I laid my tired butt down for an hour, which was a complete mistake. I woke up cranky and disgruntled. Nothing was going to please me no matter what it was or what I did. I was hungry again but too irritated to try and make something to eat. I was thirsty but I didn't want just water or the 7-Up that's here. I wanted chocolate but I wanted something salty. I wanted ice cream but there wasn't any here. Nothing could please me!
I talked to Misti and was complaining to her about how crotchety I was and all she did was laugh at me. She said "let's go crash Jenn's fire" and of course I was like "I am not going anywhere!" lol I am so evil when I am like that. I finally decided that I was going to have to get up in the top of the garage in order to get my knee brace and told Misti that was what I was going to do. She said she was going to come over... She shows up as I am trying to hang like am onkey from the rafters in the garage! Picture this - I am standing on my bike seat, balanced by the rafters and a tool box. I tried to get up - first attempt failed! Misti thought I was going to fall and bust my head! I thought out another strategy and succeeded! Here I am, up in the garage, searching through all of my darling husband's crap, trying to find my baseball bag in order to get my dang knee brace! I threw one bag to the side and Misti just about had a heart attack. I guess when it landed it loosened off one of the 2x4's that I was standing on and it popped through the bottom! Oops. All was good though because I found my knee brace and made my way down out of the rafters. It was definitely harder getting down than it was getting up, but I made it without a scratch!
So yeah, put the knee brace on, took some ASA and felt much better.
Another day - another adventure!
The day started out bright and early for me! I got up and headed over to Colleen's for her birthday. I made it there by 9:45am! Yep, everyone knows that is early for me! Of course I rode my bike - it was so beautiful out at that time!
I helped Colleen get stuff started and we went and picked up the fruit tray she ordered. She left to go to the spa, and I stayed in a house full of New Jericans! What a trip! (I call them that because they are all from New Jersey and are Puerto Ricans lol) Her entire family family was so great and super friendly.
I spent the next 2 hours making potato salad and house salad, as well as cutting up tomatoes and onions and lettuce for hamburgers. Little did I know that the hamburgers had already been eaten and we didn't need the toppings! Colleen's dad did all the grilling - I called him Chef Papi! He went to town on everything. Chicken, burgers, beer brats, hot dogs, ribs, steak... there was enough to feed an Army! (Pun intended!)
Colleen came back from her spa day and she looked so relaxed and refreshed. We all ate, well pigged out is more like it, and then it poured down rain! Fabulous! Of course, by this point I was completely exhausted, so I waited until the rain subsided and then hopped on my bike to head home.
The ride home wasn't bad at all. It was still drizzling, but it actually felt good on my skin. I took my time, smelling the rain and the buds on the trees and grass. I wish my allergies weren't the way they are because I would sit outside and smell everything all day long. Anyway, I made it to my community and was about to tackle the hill. A couple of pumps and I knew there was no way I was going to make it up riding! Off I got and walked the bike up like a little kid. It is weird how one day I can accomplish it and the next I can't even come close!
When I got home, my right knee was killing me. Not sure if everyone knows, but in '92 I had my knee operated on. All throughout high school I had problems with it dislocating all the time. Never mind the fact that I wouldn't give up playing sports in order to let it heal! So they went in and rebuilt my knee cap, put in some screws and them some staples in the tendons... good as new. Well, it seems in my quest to ride my bike every day, I am working muscles I haven't worked in a while. This has my knee agitated a bit. When I walk it feels like I am hyper-extending it, which of course I am not, but still the pain feels real enough. Anyway, I laid my tired butt down for an hour, which was a complete mistake. I woke up cranky and disgruntled. Nothing was going to please me no matter what it was or what I did. I was hungry again but too irritated to try and make something to eat. I was thirsty but I didn't want just water or the 7-Up that's here. I wanted chocolate but I wanted something salty. I wanted ice cream but there wasn't any here. Nothing could please me!
I talked to Misti and was complaining to her about how crotchety I was and all she did was laugh at me. She said "let's go crash Jenn's fire" and of course I was like "I am not going anywhere!" lol I am so evil when I am like that. I finally decided that I was going to have to get up in the top of the garage in order to get my knee brace and told Misti that was what I was going to do. She said she was going to come over... She shows up as I am trying to hang like am onkey from the rafters in the garage! Picture this - I am standing on my bike seat, balanced by the rafters and a tool box. I tried to get up - first attempt failed! Misti thought I was going to fall and bust my head! I thought out another strategy and succeeded! Here I am, up in the garage, searching through all of my darling husband's crap, trying to find my baseball bag in order to get my dang knee brace! I threw one bag to the side and Misti just about had a heart attack. I guess when it landed it loosened off one of the 2x4's that I was standing on and it popped through the bottom! Oops. All was good though because I found my knee brace and made my way down out of the rafters. It was definitely harder getting down than it was getting up, but I made it without a scratch!
So yeah, put the knee brace on, took some ASA and felt much better.
Another day - another adventure!
Friday, April 30, 2010
Day 5
My day started with a phone call at 7:48 this morning. It was the Radiology dept at Carthage Area Hospital telling me that the Dr. who I was scheduled to see today was called away to Albany to do emergency constructive surgery. Fine by me! To be honest, I am not looking forward to them telling me that I broke my toe and it didn't heal right etc.
I went back to sleep of course. So when I finally got out of bed, I turned on the computer and was about to play around, when Michele called me. Newsletter business... here we go! So I had to sit here and re-vamp the newsletter, make it a double issue because it was never approved for April. Michele's ears must have been burning because I was cussing her out while working on the newsletter! Needless to say, I managed to pull it off and get it sent back to her and Stephanie! w00t!
Outside... what can I say? It was a beautiful day, and so the bike riding commenced! I rode form the house to the PX because I wanted to check out some of the decorations and I had to buy Colleen a birthday gift. (Her birthday party is tomorrow, nothing like leaving it to the last minute right!) I bought a few more things, bought Colleen her gift and of course bought some subway. Found out as well that today was the last day for our Subway guy - he is moving home to Mississippi! :(
As I was leaving the PX, I ran into Amanda and Kirstie! Amanda told me that she has lost 16 pounds in a month... good for her!!! And Kirstie said she has to start walking again. Trust me - it is hard to get into a regiment, but now that I have hit day 5 I think I am going to be good to go from here on it! Keep it up Girls!
I left the PX and swung by Misti's. It seems logical for me to either swing by Misti's or Colleen's because they are on post. I am not sure I am ready to try and tackle off post yet! I would love to ride over to Jenn's but 1) she has a HUGE hill leading up to her place and my arse would never make it up, even walking, and 2) it would entail me crossing the entire post, riding to her place, riding back and crossing post again! I am doing good but I honestly do not believe I am there just yet! As soon as I am though she won't be able to get rid of me! lol
I finished off my ride by coming home. I was going to stop and see Jodi and Kelly and Kim and the kids (wow - a lot of and's in there!) but they weren't outside so I tackled the hill! Success! Even after my long ride I managed to complete the hill without getting off the bike. Of course, I had to put the bike in first gear and it was like a crawl up, but I did it nonetheless!!!
I'm tired, my thighs are sore, my back is sore, but I feel great! Now I have to make a pasta salad for Colleen's birthday tomorrow and clean the house. Apparently my work is never done!
I went back to sleep of course. So when I finally got out of bed, I turned on the computer and was about to play around, when Michele called me. Newsletter business... here we go! So I had to sit here and re-vamp the newsletter, make it a double issue because it was never approved for April. Michele's ears must have been burning because I was cussing her out while working on the newsletter! Needless to say, I managed to pull it off and get it sent back to her and Stephanie! w00t!
Outside... what can I say? It was a beautiful day, and so the bike riding commenced! I rode form the house to the PX because I wanted to check out some of the decorations and I had to buy Colleen a birthday gift. (Her birthday party is tomorrow, nothing like leaving it to the last minute right!) I bought a few more things, bought Colleen her gift and of course bought some subway. Found out as well that today was the last day for our Subway guy - he is moving home to Mississippi! :(
As I was leaving the PX, I ran into Amanda and Kirstie! Amanda told me that she has lost 16 pounds in a month... good for her!!! And Kirstie said she has to start walking again. Trust me - it is hard to get into a regiment, but now that I have hit day 5 I think I am going to be good to go from here on it! Keep it up Girls!
I left the PX and swung by Misti's. It seems logical for me to either swing by Misti's or Colleen's because they are on post. I am not sure I am ready to try and tackle off post yet! I would love to ride over to Jenn's but 1) she has a HUGE hill leading up to her place and my arse would never make it up, even walking, and 2) it would entail me crossing the entire post, riding to her place, riding back and crossing post again! I am doing good but I honestly do not believe I am there just yet! As soon as I am though she won't be able to get rid of me! lol
I finished off my ride by coming home. I was going to stop and see Jodi and Kelly and Kim and the kids (wow - a lot of and's in there!) but they weren't outside so I tackled the hill! Success! Even after my long ride I managed to complete the hill without getting off the bike. Of course, I had to put the bike in first gear and it was like a crawl up, but I did it nonetheless!!!
I'm tired, my thighs are sore, my back is sore, but I feel great! Now I have to make a pasta salad for Colleen's birthday tomorrow and clean the house. Apparently my work is never done!
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Day 4
Well, what can I say? I am a slacker!
Today I was supposed to go to Guthrie and have blood drawn for my allergy testing. Yeah, that didn't happen. It was too cold for me and there was no way in heck I was going to ride my bike all the way across post and back! Yes, I was lazy! So I called Guthrie and it's all good. It is an open lab, so I can go on Monday and have them draw it if I feel like. lol
Colleen called and asked if I wanted to go to the Commissary with her. Of course! I checked the mail before we left and guess what??? The thing I am going to wear for my husbands homecoming came in! I was overjoyed!
We went to the PX and Commissary, I picked up a few things that I needed and then headed over to Misti's. I made her and Ashley bagel pizza's for lunch. (My Pay It Forward deed! Misti's was that she picked me up 2 cases of soda that were on sale at Walmart.) Misti is a picky eater, but I guess she liked them because she ate most of the 2 that I gave her. Ashley devoured hers as well! Travis, Ashley's son, decided to try and eat a whole plastic egg from Easter, so I pulled that out of his mouth! He cried for a bit but soon forgot about it. That's how kids are right? Something scares them but it is quickly forgotten. ;)
So I hung out at Misti's for a long while, then realized that my poor dog was at home and hadn't been out for hours, so I came home, let her out and she was a happy girl. I called Michele to catch up and then talked to Jenn for the better part of 2 and a half hours. I love my phone calls!
Now I am getting ready for bed. I am going to try and ride my bike in the morning. I am not sure if I will be able to do it after tomorrow afternoon. I have an appointment to have my baby toe looked at. See, when we first moved here I was walking through the dining room and slammed my baby toe into a box... my foot went black and blue and brown. It was gross and super painful! Well, when I had my toe nails looked at earlier this month, they said I may have broken it and that I should have it x-rayed. So tomorrow afternoon is my appointment. Here's the kicker - if I broke it and it didn't heal right, they are going to have to re-break it and set it properly! I am holding out all kinds of hope that this isn't the case! I want to be able to ride my bike!
Until tomorrow...
Today I was supposed to go to Guthrie and have blood drawn for my allergy testing. Yeah, that didn't happen. It was too cold for me and there was no way in heck I was going to ride my bike all the way across post and back! Yes, I was lazy! So I called Guthrie and it's all good. It is an open lab, so I can go on Monday and have them draw it if I feel like. lol
Colleen called and asked if I wanted to go to the Commissary with her. Of course! I checked the mail before we left and guess what??? The thing I am going to wear for my husbands homecoming came in! I was overjoyed!
We went to the PX and Commissary, I picked up a few things that I needed and then headed over to Misti's. I made her and Ashley bagel pizza's for lunch. (My Pay It Forward deed! Misti's was that she picked me up 2 cases of soda that were on sale at Walmart.) Misti is a picky eater, but I guess she liked them because she ate most of the 2 that I gave her. Ashley devoured hers as well! Travis, Ashley's son, decided to try and eat a whole plastic egg from Easter, so I pulled that out of his mouth! He cried for a bit but soon forgot about it. That's how kids are right? Something scares them but it is quickly forgotten. ;)
So I hung out at Misti's for a long while, then realized that my poor dog was at home and hadn't been out for hours, so I came home, let her out and she was a happy girl. I called Michele to catch up and then talked to Jenn for the better part of 2 and a half hours. I love my phone calls!
Now I am getting ready for bed. I am going to try and ride my bike in the morning. I am not sure if I will be able to do it after tomorrow afternoon. I have an appointment to have my baby toe looked at. See, when we first moved here I was walking through the dining room and slammed my baby toe into a box... my foot went black and blue and brown. It was gross and super painful! Well, when I had my toe nails looked at earlier this month, they said I may have broken it and that I should have it x-rayed. So tomorrow afternoon is my appointment. Here's the kicker - if I broke it and it didn't heal right, they are going to have to re-break it and set it properly! I am holding out all kinds of hope that this isn't the case! I want to be able to ride my bike!
Until tomorrow...
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Day 3
I made it up the hill today!!!
Let me start from the beginning!
Last night I was racking my brain trying to remember what I had to do today and I couldn't think of anything. So I slept in a little. I was awakened by my amazing husbands phone call! I love his phone calls. They come maybe once a week if I am lucky, so I enjoy every minute of them! While I was talking to him, Kelly beeped in and I ignored the call, knowing I would call her back when I was done with James.
I called Kelly back only to realize that I was supposed to be at her house at 10 for her Mary Kay party! (As most of you know, I do not wear makeup but I go to parties to be supportive of my friends!) I called Jenn freaking out - because I was talking to her last night when I couldn't remember what I was supposed to do today. She laughed at me and stayed on the phone with me until I was about ready to go! Have to love speaker phone!
I took Daisy outside and realized it was still cold out, so I threw on my vest and headed down to the garage. Of course, taking my bike was the only way I was going to get there real fast! I flew down the hill, my fingers feeling like they were going to fall off from the cold. I crossed the street and ran into Ms. Kim, who told me everyone was at Kelly's. Boy, did I feel stupid walking in and the party was almost over! Needless to say, I didn't buy anything but I booked a party in order to support Kelly's "wish list".
Kelly had to leave to go pick up Grace, so she offered for me to go with her so I could stop at the PX and grab some smokes (yes, I am still smoking) and naturally I bought myself a crack bread from Subway. Flat bread = Crack Bread for me! I swear Subway puts something in their food to make you crave it even more! Anyway, as we were leaving Kelly's, I managed to spill coffee on my jeans, making it look like I peed my pants! No biggie - I am not worried what other people think, and most know I do not go out in public looking all dirty and nasty! ;)
I accomplished everything I needed to and met Kelly outside. We came back to her place, talked for a bit, and I found out that her husband thinks I am a bowling shark out for blood!!! Hmm... I wonder where he heard THAT from? I am going to blame Jenn's husband Dan, and my husband of course! That's a horse of a different color for sure. lol
I left Kelly's, hopped on my bike and headed home. Now, Kelly lives just down the hill and around the corner, so I figured it wouldn't be all that hard going home since I didn't put in a full ride. Was I mistaken? Of course! I peddled my heart out to get enough momentum to try and cruise up the hill. No go! I was huffing and cussing and dying all the way up the hill! But I MADE IT!!! My thighs felt like rocks when I got off the bike but at least I accomplished something today that I thought was going to take me longer. It will of course be harder if I do a full ride, which I am hoping to accomplish by the end of the week. (Good luck chuck!)
So now I am getting ready to go to a Volunteer Recognition thing tonight with Michele. Dress is Business Casual. Fun fun for me! Of course I will take a bunch of pictures - as a mater of fact, I will have to take a picture of the hill as well!
So I am feeling accomplished and energized. I hope this feeling holds out for my entire Bicycle mission!
Let me start from the beginning!
Last night I was racking my brain trying to remember what I had to do today and I couldn't think of anything. So I slept in a little. I was awakened by my amazing husbands phone call! I love his phone calls. They come maybe once a week if I am lucky, so I enjoy every minute of them! While I was talking to him, Kelly beeped in and I ignored the call, knowing I would call her back when I was done with James.
I called Kelly back only to realize that I was supposed to be at her house at 10 for her Mary Kay party! (As most of you know, I do not wear makeup but I go to parties to be supportive of my friends!) I called Jenn freaking out - because I was talking to her last night when I couldn't remember what I was supposed to do today. She laughed at me and stayed on the phone with me until I was about ready to go! Have to love speaker phone!
I took Daisy outside and realized it was still cold out, so I threw on my vest and headed down to the garage. Of course, taking my bike was the only way I was going to get there real fast! I flew down the hill, my fingers feeling like they were going to fall off from the cold. I crossed the street and ran into Ms. Kim, who told me everyone was at Kelly's. Boy, did I feel stupid walking in and the party was almost over! Needless to say, I didn't buy anything but I booked a party in order to support Kelly's "wish list".
Kelly had to leave to go pick up Grace, so she offered for me to go with her so I could stop at the PX and grab some smokes (yes, I am still smoking) and naturally I bought myself a crack bread from Subway. Flat bread = Crack Bread for me! I swear Subway puts something in their food to make you crave it even more! Anyway, as we were leaving Kelly's, I managed to spill coffee on my jeans, making it look like I peed my pants! No biggie - I am not worried what other people think, and most know I do not go out in public looking all dirty and nasty! ;)
I accomplished everything I needed to and met Kelly outside. We came back to her place, talked for a bit, and I found out that her husband thinks I am a bowling shark out for blood!!! Hmm... I wonder where he heard THAT from? I am going to blame Jenn's husband Dan, and my husband of course! That's a horse of a different color for sure. lol
I left Kelly's, hopped on my bike and headed home. Now, Kelly lives just down the hill and around the corner, so I figured it wouldn't be all that hard going home since I didn't put in a full ride. Was I mistaken? Of course! I peddled my heart out to get enough momentum to try and cruise up the hill. No go! I was huffing and cussing and dying all the way up the hill! But I MADE IT!!! My thighs felt like rocks when I got off the bike but at least I accomplished something today that I thought was going to take me longer. It will of course be harder if I do a full ride, which I am hoping to accomplish by the end of the week. (Good luck chuck!)
So now I am getting ready to go to a Volunteer Recognition thing tonight with Michele. Dress is Business Casual. Fun fun for me! Of course I will take a bunch of pictures - as a mater of fact, I will have to take a picture of the hill as well!
So I am feeling accomplished and energized. I hope this feeling holds out for my entire Bicycle mission!
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Day 2
SNOW!
Do I really need to say anything more?
I was all set today to get up and meet the girls for lunch at the Dining Facility (DFAC). I was going to ride my bike over because it isn't all that far, but when I opened my eyes and saw that it was snowing, I quickly squashed that idea.
Turns out that my friend Misti sleeps like the dead, so she didn't answer her dang phone the numerous times I called her. My other friend Ashley had just put her son Travis down to nap, so she wasn't going to be able to come for lunch either. Michele had a Steering Committee Meeting - she was out. So that just left Jenn, her son Boston and I for lunch. We went to the DFAC for 11:00 only to find out that it didn't open until 11:30. My fault. I was under the impression that it opened at 11. At any rate, we had a fabulous lunch! I got Pastrami on a Spinach Wrap, a salad, some french fries, because a girl needs some fatty foods, and I finished it off with cheesecake. I grabbed a container of what I thought was strawberry topping for the cheesecake - turns out it was just plain old jell-o. They also had what looked like chocolate pudding, so I grabbed that - but it tasted foul! Boston loved it though! And he was such a good boy! Well behaved and didn't throw a single thing the whole time we were there! Oh - and I taught him to say "Ta-Ta's"... as in boobies! Heehee!
We just about froze coming out of the DFAC, only because some idiot decided to park so close that the van had to be moved forward in order to get Boston's stroller in the trunk! Some people, I tell ya!
It is a balmy 34° F with a windchill of 24° F! And yes, it is the 27th of April!
I had the bright idea that I was going to hop on my bike and ride over to the mailbox - for those who know, it is only about 200 feet away from the house! Haha! But then really, what is the point of putting on my helmet and reflective belt, to just roll down the driveway and back up?
So now I am back in the house, with my flannel pj pants on and I am not going anywhere for the rest of the day! (Although I talked to Misti and she said if I decide to go out, I can peddle my butt to her house... love ya Girl but I am not that crazy!)
I will catch up on some House today and maybe even Lost or V. Staying warm is my goal. Hopefully the snows stops and I will be able to ride and write tomorrow!
:)
Monday, April 26, 2010
Day 1
I am going to try my hand at this blog thing again. I had one before but it kind of fell to the wayside. Here's hoping that I can commit to this one and get healthy in the process!
I have decided to ride my bike somewhere/anywhere at least once a day for the next 30 days. This should prove to be interesting, because I had promised Daisy that I was going to take her for a walk every day and I have already failed at that! My poor dog!
I rode yesterday but I am actually going to start with today as day 1. Nothing too eventful happened yesterday, other than when I stopped by Colleen's, her son decided to puke all over her! See, I was trying to get him to come and see me, but he wouldn't come. Good thing too because he would have yakked all over me and that wouldn't have been a good thing for this weak stomach lady! I would have joined in with Izzy and it would have been a "Ralph-Fest!" (*thanks Jenn!)
Anyway, so today - Day 1.
I hopped on my bike and started out. Got down around the bend, saw that Jodi and Kelly were outside so I swung over to say hi. Kelly had no idea who I was at first! Jodi told me about Xander's soccer and I figured I would ride over to see him play. I left there and rode to Popeye's and got a Delta Mini and a fountain soda. After that I headed on over to Misti's house. It isn't all that far, it's just the gradual hill that kills me. I did find a shortcut yesterday so I used that today as well. I made it to Misti's from Popeye's in about 9 minutes! w00t!
I hung out there for a while, watched Colton get his hands all dirty and try to dribble a basketball! He is such a ham! Of course, I don't ever like to over-stay my welcome, so when I was getting ready to leave, I decided that my butt was too sore to try and go see Xander play, so I started out for home. It was a pretty good ride, up until the point where Misti drove by and honked the horn at me! Scared me to the point that I almost lost the bike! Haha!
I made it back to my housing area, and ran into Kirstie walking RJ. Talked to her for a little bit then continued home. Well, I didn't quite make it all the way home on the bike. I had to stop at the bottom of the hill by my house and walk the bike up it! My legs were burning even worse than they were yesterday! I finally managed to get to the top of the hill, hopped back on and made it home. I struggled with the garage door opener, parked my bike, and almost crawled into the house!
I am nuts to think I can do this every single day for the next 30 days, but I am on a mission! Wish me luck!
I have decided to ride my bike somewhere/anywhere at least once a day for the next 30 days. This should prove to be interesting, because I had promised Daisy that I was going to take her for a walk every day and I have already failed at that! My poor dog!
I rode yesterday but I am actually going to start with today as day 1. Nothing too eventful happened yesterday, other than when I stopped by Colleen's, her son decided to puke all over her! See, I was trying to get him to come and see me, but he wouldn't come. Good thing too because he would have yakked all over me and that wouldn't have been a good thing for this weak stomach lady! I would have joined in with Izzy and it would have been a "Ralph-Fest!" (*thanks Jenn!)
Anyway, so today - Day 1.
I hopped on my bike and started out. Got down around the bend, saw that Jodi and Kelly were outside so I swung over to say hi. Kelly had no idea who I was at first! Jodi told me about Xander's soccer and I figured I would ride over to see him play. I left there and rode to Popeye's and got a Delta Mini and a fountain soda. After that I headed on over to Misti's house. It isn't all that far, it's just the gradual hill that kills me. I did find a shortcut yesterday so I used that today as well. I made it to Misti's from Popeye's in about 9 minutes! w00t!
I hung out there for a while, watched Colton get his hands all dirty and try to dribble a basketball! He is such a ham! Of course, I don't ever like to over-stay my welcome, so when I was getting ready to leave, I decided that my butt was too sore to try and go see Xander play, so I started out for home. It was a pretty good ride, up until the point where Misti drove by and honked the horn at me! Scared me to the point that I almost lost the bike! Haha!
I made it back to my housing area, and ran into Kirstie walking RJ. Talked to her for a little bit then continued home. Well, I didn't quite make it all the way home on the bike. I had to stop at the bottom of the hill by my house and walk the bike up it! My legs were burning even worse than they were yesterday! I finally managed to get to the top of the hill, hopped back on and made it home. I struggled with the garage door opener, parked my bike, and almost crawled into the house!
I am nuts to think I can do this every single day for the next 30 days, but I am on a mission! Wish me luck!
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